Comments on: The Lifestyle of a Dedicated BK Follower

By: Vinayak

Vinayak — Fri, 07 Oct 2011 07:52:21 +0000

Please.. BKs have issues within them.. BKs, PBKs have questions about god’s incarnation between them. Why go to them to learn godly things ?? Heard there is a Vishnu Party also !!!!

By: David

David — Sun, 28 Aug 2011 21:34:23 +0000

Dear om1

Your intuition tells you there is something not right with bk teachings.Listen to it and follow it.I ,for one,hated the talk of children and parents and relationships being vicious or impure.I think its a terrible way to describe anyone,not divine or spiritual..and this is supposed to be from god? No one needs to surrender to an institution to be spiritual.Your spirituality is your path,whatever that may be.

By: om1

om1 — Sun, 21 Aug 2011 14:22:29 +0000

Dear editor and readers, I am not a BK. I am confused by this religion altogether. I have been in this knowledge for 12 years. I wanted to surrender to the BKs and Baba, but I have not done it yet, I nearly did, but then I changed my mind. The reason for this is because murli’s say different things, and there are so many different views on this site. Also, what is the outcome of this website? How comes centres keep opening up? Is there a way of banishing the centres and bks altogether, once and for all. I am confused about this murli:
In 17th August 2011′s murli, it said this:
Question: At the confluence age what is the greatest charity that you children perform?
Answer: You completely surrender yourself to the Father. that you completely sacrifice yourself, this is the greatest act of charity. You are now ending your attachment. You are making effort to forget your children, home and family.
This is your vow, when you die, the world is dead for you.
You are now becoming liberated from vicious relationships.
Why should the moth not burn and sacrifice itself to the flame?
Blessing: may you be loving and co-operative, and attain success in service, with renunciation and the power of love.
in the beginning there was not so much power of knowledge.
but success was received on the basis of renunciation and love. Day and night there was only love for Baba and yagya in the intellect.
“Baba and the yagya” would emerge from deep within their hearts this love made everyone cooperative.
Centres was opened with this power. They became “manmanabhav” with the love experienced by sakar baba. It was this love that made them co-operative. So now surrender everyone with renunciation and the power of love and you will receive success.
SLOGAN: In order to become a peaceful angel free yourself from wasteful words, and words that disturb you.
FOR SERVICE THROUGH THE MIND: Constantly maintain the stage of having pure and positive thoughts for everyone. Feed toli to souls who are sitting on the pyre of worry and disheartened souls. Your stage of having pure and positive thoughts will give burning souls the experience of cool water.
In another murli that I recently listened to the sister (no name of the sister given) said that you can go to weddings, and wear jewellery.
I have found out that another sister’s son is getting married? I thought marriage was forbidden in this religion.
Please correct me if my thinking is wrong?
I defintately heard right.
But something is definately not right within the bks teachings. The only thing i agree on is peace, trust, purity, love, and happiness, but that’s the only thing that I have taken out of the Bks. Honesty should be spreaded out too all people on the planet.
All comments welcome.
T.

By: Filthy Shudra

Filthy Shudra — Sat, 19 Jun 2010 06:31:10 +0000

HI Neelam

if you are still reading these posts……
Why not be the reasonable one and propose to purchase & use separate utensils for veg or non-veg foods? That you are willing to do that in respect for them? Then offer to sit quietly before eating, each can remember their own form of God before eating…….
if they refuse that, there s no changing them….. eat at their house only and be free of cooking for them!

By: Xie

Xie — Sat, 19 Jun 2010 04:24:13 +0000

Hi Neelam, I feel sory for you. I joined BK, but not member, and come to the meeting and meditation few times. I feel a lot of strange things and control there, and I just think that their teaching is wierd and make no sense in many ways. Anyway… I dont think your parents in law are spiritual enough to understand the spirituality itself. Tell them that if they are really pure and spiritual as they think they are, why would they attached over you being not vegetarian. Why would they wory about what is coming into their mouth (food) than worrying more about what is coming out from their mouth (their saying) and hurting people (in this case: you)? Don’t they think that hurting people is NOT SPIRITUAL as they are thinking?

By: editor

editor — Wed, 07 Apr 2010 08:06:38 +0000

Dear Neelam, sorry to hear about your difficult position. Your in-laws are a nightmare BK or not I think. It is also sad to hear that your husband hits you. I know this is a very difficult position to be in. I imagine you would just like to get out of there but that is not possible. Your mother in law is very controlling. You will have to be clever to deal with them. You might consider being vegetarian when you are with them – they are vegetarians by convenience, so you might be as well. That would take away a big reason for her to attack you. I expect she will find some new way to insult you, but you will have to become like a politician and move cleverly in these relationships. There is no point in being depressed. Instead think about how you can be clever and careful and take back control of your own dignity.

By: Neelam

Neelam — Tue, 06 Apr 2010 09:43:17 +0000

If I say her to leave she will complain to my husband(her son)and change the atmosphere with her use of spiritual words and my family will tell me to leave. I hope you can put this in the “Mulris” so that they read and understand.
I really need help because my life is slowly getting destroyed. Now she is chick-passing everyday that she wishes if she had a vegetarian daughter in law. whereas she pities her daughter that she is getting weak and need to eat meat.I’m undergoing depression and sometimes feel like suiciding.I will never forget my BKs mother and father in law!I need the daddies to help me and my famliy from getting destroyed from misinterpreting the word of god!

By: The Truth

The Truth — Tue, 06 Apr 2010 06:33:44 +0000

Not eating the food you prepare with love is the greatest insult.

Being a hypocrite and a parasite on others is not “divine”, it is a controlling mechanism … a kind of “divine and rule” in your own home.

Ask her to leave. If they are BKs, they are no longer your husband’s nor his responsibility. Tell them to go to the BKs and let the BKs look after them.

Good luck to you.

By: Neelam

Neelam — Wed, 31 Mar 2010 02:45:02 +0000

I am not a BK and also i do not discriminate your way of preaching. My mother in law in law and father in law are BK’s and they dont eat food or drink which i prepare saying that it is impure because i am a meat eater.But her daughter is also a meat eater and she eats whatever her daughter prepares. She even eats at relatives house who are meat eaters and my father in law drinks alcohol.

She says i am impure and she is gods child. What type of preaching is this? When someone wants peace why then she has to destroy my peace. Is that the teaching is? She quarrels with me to leave meat. She is living with us. what should i do? I hope you have a answer for this beacuse u are a gods child and god doesnt want any human being to deprive of their rights.

By: Sharma

Sharma — Fri, 12 Mar 2010 18:31:51 +0000

Sarikaji
Once u know the selfish agenda of BKs all your peace and happiness will spin out.Most people do feel at peace and Happiness inside the centre,this because for a moment within the centre they feel shielded and protected!This is nothing due to some divine vibration,freudian pshychology terms these mental condition as ESCAPISM,escapist tendencies fro the real life situation.The BKs are very smart to exhibit this tendencies,because given in a difficult scenario they always act irresponsibly.Bk are in the hunt of filling their ranks with 900000souls,this agenda is always foremost in their minds.They can go for rank filling to any extent deceptively,coersion or sheer manipulation.But most people get fooled by their dresses badges and the small booklet in the pocket which they smartingly produce at the slightes enquiry.Go to any of their programs they are adept at giving a lecture on any topic on the current programs,and if they find some scapegoats they easily coaxed them for the 7day course.The individual get lost in all the hype and drama along with nurturing and false love for sometime,but once he gets older the problem for which he joined the organisation surfaces and compounding with the new way of life he faces the dilemma of what way to go about.This is the beginning of his struggle for identity!