- She is an engineer works in Software Industry in Bangalore for past 10 years. Dedicated to her work.
- Stays alone, family is upset because she hasn’t married and refused marriage. Her point is I have right to choose my life as per my requirements and I am very happy in it.
- Other than BK, she follows Indian classical music and organizes musical functions also (Note: This is good).
- Her facebook friend list comprises both engineer friends and BK friends.

During the meeting, she seems terribly nice. Is it because meeting after a long time or because of BK involvement.
She is interested to be in touch with friends from college (10 years back). Is excited about that. She posts in facebook that college days were the best years in her life. Now that’s a good sign that something other than BK excites her.
Or is it that unlike other engineers who now have family, she doesn’t have any so that uncompleteness feeling is inside her. Hence she longs for that.

She said that weekends she is very busy doing BK events and Indian classical music work. Quite innocently. Looks like she is not suspicious of non BKs. She seems to be really happy.

Now, traits of BK.
- Before meeting face to face, tried to initiate discussion about BK, way of life etc. Cold response. is not willing to discuss. Whatever BK is, she is fully convinced.
- Is involved with BK at least for 5 years.
- Has canceled a marriage proposal set by parents.
- Stays in Bangalore but goes to Mt. Abu at least once a year for important functions.

Another friend (non BK) suggests that
- She is quite happy in what she is doing. If she is pulled from that she cannot adjust in usual society.
I agree with that.

Impression:
My impression is that she is still somewhat level headed. It’s like living two lives, one the earlier life and one a BK life.

Questions
- How long will she be associated with BK. Will it be lifetime. Or is there chance of herself understanding and coming back.
- Will any time she is likely to shift to Madhuban full time.
- What will happen at old age. When she is not physically strong, will BK take care of her.

The young caterpillar always asked a butterfly that came often to its home in the mulberry tree – what is it like when you become a butterfly?
The butterfly would try to explain, but could never find the words.
All it would ever say was ‘One day, you will know”.

Then one day, the caterpillar felt a strange feeling, and wrapped itself into a silken cocoon. it was so lovely and peaceful. As the coziness lulled it into a deep sleep, its last thought was” I don’t want to be a butterfly. I just want this warm peaceful feeling……”

As it emerged and gloried in its new beautiful form, it took a leap and amazed itself at how easily it could fly around the mulberry tree. As it came closer, seeing its home from a new point of view, it saw a caterpillar busily weaving itself into its new cocoon, and remembered its own experience, its own aching curiosity.

It decided to fly close and tell the caterpillar everything. The caterpillar looked up from its weaving, and asked “What is it like to become a butterfly”.

But the butterfly, overwhelmed by its freedom and flight, found it could not find adequate words, and said the only phrase that came close to the truth “One day, you will know”

The moral of the story is in the chronology…… The truth of the story depends on how you want to see yourself, and whether you think there is more change to come in your life.

Try to fix the truth of the story to only one episode of your life, and you will kill it.

You are right, please open your eyes and try appreciating the wonderful task of institution rather than speaking anything stupid.

It is just because of some souls misunderstanding the teachings or commenting without knowing the knowledge tought here come into trouble dear.